This isn’t directed at anyone in particular, but rather the entire group of apathy ridden, semi-depressive (contradictory? probs) youth that I have encountered throughout my life and especially on tumblr.
Stop it. Stop whinging, stop whining and moaning and moping about your life, about how nothing works out and how you’re oh-so-sad and oh-so-lonely and no one loves you and no one wants to be your friend. STOP IT. As ridiculously cliche as this is, your life is 100% what you want it to be. You want to be happy? Then be happy! Make plans to see your friends, don’t wait for them to make plans to see you. You’re lonely and looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend? You know what? It’s not going to happen just because you tell yourself “I’m ready for a partner now”, no one is going to climb through your bedroom window and cradle your sobbing body before asking to be your boyfriend or girlfriend. Go outside, get a job, or a different job, talk to that person in your uni class, say yes to hanging out with a new group of friends. It’s really not that hard!
I am so sick of people as young as I am getting so hung up on relationships though, especially when they are clearly just detrimental to both parties. Honestly, at this age, why should you spend your life upset and worried and jealous, and possibly ruin some of the best years of your life over something that may or may not mean anything in 5 years time? Seriously it’s just like shoving a square peg through a round hole, it accomplishes nothing except that in the end you both feel like knobs. If you are happy in your relationship then that’s great and I am happy for you, but as soon as it becomes a chore, as soon as you aren’t sure about it anymore then get the hell out, because I guarantee that after a week or so of hurt and regret you will both feel a lot better for it. Not to mention that it just becomes painful for everyone else to watch.
It’s interesting, really, how all of these things intertwine, being a happier more sociable person makes you a more attractive person to date, being more sociable also means you meet more people and have a higher chance of finding someone (if that’s what you want), not to mention that being happier about life in general makes you a far more pleasant person to be around and again, date.
Anyway, rant over.
TLDR; Stop being sad, stop doing things that make you sad and be happy.